On Saturday I headed to Auckland.
The Daughter was performing in a water ballet titled Swan Song. I was delighted when I discovered earlier in the week that a parade was being held in Auckland that afternoon, and The Daughter, as well as a friend who was also up from Katikati and I headed to Ponsonby Road to watch.
The Gay Pride Parade was held after a twelve year absence from Auckland’s streets. Back in 2001 the Hero Parade as it was known was held for the last time. The Hero Parade was a bit more raucous than Saturday’s, but I think that Saturday’s parade has a better future in store for it.
Among the thousands lining the streets I was thankful to see that families were out in force to support the parade. Grandparents, parents and children of all ages were taking part.
From a very young age I have known and cherished the friendships of people from both genders, from different corners of the world, different financial circles and different sexual orientations.
I guess I was lucky. At one of my jobs I was privileged to meet [for the first time I knew it at least] some wonderful people who were both lesbian and gay. I grew up in a time and a family that neither understood or embraced those that were different from the ‘norm’.
They taught me real love should be taken and given where ever you find it. They showed a naive young girl that despite what I had been taught growing up they weren’t bad, evil, different or abominations. They were just like me. People trying to find their way in this thing we call life.
I have never understood the fear that homosexuality generates with some sections of the community.
At present New Zealand is debating a Marriage Bill that will finally allow gay couples to wed. It is long overdue. Although the New Zealand Marriage Act of 1955 does not ban marriage between those of the same sex in 1996 three lesbian couples were denied marriage licenses by the Registrar General. Since that time court cases have been fought and sadly lost in the fight for equality.
From the moment the bill was brought before our parliament for debate I have listened to some rather odd propaganda against it.
I have seen marriage declared a sacrament of the Church as an argument against gay marriage. John Calvin [a French theologian and pastor during the time of the Protestant Reformation. He was also a principal figure in the development of the system of Christian theology later called Calvinism] said of this: “Lastly, there is matrimony, which all admit was instituted by God, though no one before the time of (Pope) Gregory regarded it as a sacrament. What man in his sober senses could so regard it? God’s ordinance is good and holy; so also are agriculture, architecture, shoemaking, hair-cutting legitimate ordinances of God, but they are not sacraments.”
I have read that the crime rate will rise. That disease in plague proportions will return.
There was even a suggestion of communism riding in on the back of homosexuality to destabilise the country. Oh and the weirdest one was that my grandchildren will be at risk of ‘catching’ the homosexual bug.
Seeing families out for the afternoon at the Gay Pride Parade gives me hope for the future. Hope that the children there will grow up knowing that all should be free to love regardless of gender. And that all should be free to marry those they love, if this is what they want.
Sadly on the way to Auckland, when I stopped to take photos of a shag…the Canon 5D broke. Apparently it is a known fault.
Though it did give me a few bad moments when it happened as the camera is a photographer friend’s. So for now the Lumix and I are on our own.
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Love the photos Jo!
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Thanks Nicole !!!!!!!!!!
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You’re welcome! Sorry I’ve been out of touch! I’ve been so busy these days between travel, writing and illnesses! I feel like I’ haven’t been keeping up on all my blog reading! 🙂 Hope you are doing great!!!!
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It is hard sometimes…to keep up with everything and still have a life.
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Yes indeed! 🙂
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Great post and I love the colourful photos! 🙂
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Thank you Kathryn. So glad you liked the post and photos !!!!!!!
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Great photos and oh I so admire those who can do that water ballet …. And I have had some of my best ever friends in the past who have been of both persuasion… and I dont know what all the fuse is about with those who shun such wonderful individuals..
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Neither do I Sue…it baffles me no end that they don’t see the smallness of their attitude.
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really great photos…i totally agree with your thoughts…thank you for sharing such a colorful parade.
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Happy to !!! Always love sharing my small spot of this world around.
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Good open post Jo !
Shame about camera 😦 …
Hope you and Lumix continue make a brilliant partnership !
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Thanks Poppy…I am just glad i didn’t do anything to break it !
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Looks like you had a great day, Jo. Sorry to hear about the camera though – but great photos before it broke!
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I love the Lumix…such a good friend…but I really miss the Canon.
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Awww shame I didn’t know you were coming to Auckland – we were there over the same weekend, staying in Newmarket. Flew to Melbourne on Monday 🙂
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What a bummer !!! We could have met up and had some more fun. Damn.
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Great post and photos ! Well done !
In Italy we are “medioeval” , because of the strong “presence” of the Vatican and the bigots catholic parties have power and influence…
We are not a real laic State 😦
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Not many are when you really look in to it Max.
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Fabulous post! Get to know me, then love me or not – no matter my color, my race, my sexual orientation. Peal off the label and look inside 🙂
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Exactly !! If only more people thought that way.
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Great post Jo. Some people are sadly so confused about love, and believing that love was made possible by God for everyone. Everyone!
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Very true Angeline. Very, very true.
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Great post Jo, the ‘homosexual bug’ ! rofl, there are some incredibly stupid people on this earth.
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There sure are Gilly…amazing what they let come out of their mouths.
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I haven’t heard of the homosexual bug–it really makes you wonder about people doesn’t it. What would this world be like without diversity? And why can’t we all get along? Too many people care about little things. Why not focus on ending world hunger? Ending human trafficking? Just a couple of examples of real issues. Hurting people because they love people–I just don’t get that.
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Neither do I !! but they get so wrapped up in their self-rightous dogma that they forget what is really important.
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i have seen som many of these marches around the world, i really think times are changing and perhaps one day sexuality will be a personal matter, nothing to do with church and state … we have had a rainbow umbrella for many years and always smile broadly when people look at it!
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You go !!! I wish there was some way to take away all the fear and let everyone just live.
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Wow…it looks like it was great parade; great photos, Jo. We’ve had our problems in Boston with people being against the “gay parade”. It is such a shame…
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It was…I was really surprised that there were no protests at this one…perhaps there is reason for hope after all.
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I’ve never never understood the fear either. I saw the gay parade in Chicago years ago, it was huge and the streets were packed.
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I hope this one keeps growing Amy…and that families keep attending with their kids.
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Looks like quite the party!
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We sure had a blast.
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Wonderful Jo! This is as much about freedom as about love!
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It sure is…thanks for keeping up with me. I have been unable to keep up with blogging let alone visiting everyone…I feel awful about it but will try to catch up soon.
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What is a “homosexual bug?” Am I missing something? Gosh, these people!
Your photos look like it was such fun!
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It really was a great parade and afternoon.
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I have seen the Gay Pride Parade in NYC and it is something. Pretty wild. I liked looking at your parade.
I enjoyed your words, supporting the bill for equal rights. I don’t understand the fear.
Because I have a 5 D and a 5D Markii I was concerned that it has a known fault. UGH. Hope they repair it free as they say on the link.
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I will never understand the fear or the ignorance that often accompanies it…I hope they do too [the canon].
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These images of Gay Pride are terrific – so proud and so happy.
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They were on the day !!!
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well said, jo … across the board, well said!
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Thanks Stephen !!!
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funny series!
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Thanks Frizz…glad you liked it.
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Dear Jo,
Thank you for speaking out! I am happy to say that in Washington State, where I live, gay marriage is now legal. This country was supposedly built on the premise of equal rights, but we still have a long way to go.
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So do we. There is still a lot of people who are not happy that gays can now marry here in NZ. That saddens me, really saddens me.
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