So while the computer IS co-operating…here is my take on Ailsa’s theme this week. The technique is called BOKEH. After almost 55 years…the light sometimes even makes me look reasonable. Yes this was today’s photo for my 365 challenge. But being on a dinosaur laptop…well I haven’t been able to load it on to THAT page yet. I have really. really developed a HAT obsession.
This week’s theme at the Weekly Photo Challenge is CULTURE. I think this fits for one reason. So much of culture these days tells us that to be seen as beautiful you have to be young. While by no stretch of the imagination do I think I am beautiful I do think we need to remember that each age has beauty. We need to change the culture that diminishes the beauty that age gives us. I look this way because…well there is a line in a favourite movie star’s movie that I think says it all.
If my muscles ache it’s cause I used them. If it’s hard for me to walk up them steps now, it’s cause I walked up them every night to lay next to a man who loved me. I got a few wrinkles here and there, but I’ve laid under thousands of skies on sunny days, yeah. I look and feel this way, well, cause I drank and I smoked, I lived and I loved, and danced, sang, sweat and screwed my way through a pretty damn good life, if you ask me. Getting old ain’t bad Ben. Getting old, that’s earned.
I think she had a point !!!!
As an aside…when I was younger there is no way I would have posed for a shot like this one. I thought I was fat, not too great looking. It is only with age that I appreciate not only how I used to look…but the way I look now. Maturity does have its advantages.
stunning pic jo, you look fantastic with hat, earrings and mirror ball …. and so say all of us about growing older and bolder!
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Thanks Christine…I sure am getter bolder as I get older…and older.
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Rock On, Jo! A powerful post! Here’s my tribute.
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Thanks. So glad you think so.
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@Jo, stunnig pict 😀
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Thank you. It means a lot that you think so.
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So true! Awesome photo, Jo…I think it captures your playfulness!
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Awwww…thanks Sue. I did have fun playing around with that hat.
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Interesting. I’m wondering is it a culture of youth or a culture of (physical) beauty? Are they the same thing?
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I think it is a bit of both…youth suggests a certain type of beauty. Fresh and innocent with no road maps of life itself. The very thing we should be happy about is the thing many try to hide…the marks of living.
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Rings on a tree 🙂
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Va va va voom! You are beautiful. And I love the quote.
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I like to think my inner beauty pops out every now and again Angeline but I love that you think so. It is one of my favourite parts of the movie. Bonnie Bramlett is terrific in The Guardian.
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Absolutely stunning shot Jo. Meryl Streep…move over! 🙂
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Awwwww…I don’t think dear Meryl has much to worry about. I saw what SHE could do in ‘Mamma Mia’, but I love the comparison. You are so good for me !!
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Well, I love Meryl Streep and think she is gorgeous and you made me think of her when I saw your stunning photo. You go girl! 🙂 *hugs*
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I think she is gorgeous as well…and sooooooooooo limber.
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Yep, just like you. 🙂 *hugs*
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I have to say, I LOVE this picture of you! I think this one is probably one of my very favorites of your 365 challenge so far. 😀 I agree with you about the culture thing- it’s sad but true that society endlessly worships youth and physical beauty over wisdom and inner beauty, but there it is…you either adapt, accept or learn to just not give a flying f*ck what others think and be the best person you can be anyway. Personally, I like the last option the best. This picture has got the song from “A Chorus Line” stuck in my head now….”One! Singular sensation…every little step she takes!”…
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Awwwwwww !! I must admit…it is one of my favourites so far. I had fun doing it. Taking very LITTLE steps at the moment. But at least I am still going forward.
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Who’s your photographer? I want to book a session 🙂
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Ummm…that would be me !! Come for a visit.
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You look beautiful, and it’s a great photo. Cheers to ageing with chutzpah!
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I like THAT word ‘chutzpah’, it sounds so full of life.
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I do too. I find myself pillaging other languages more and more to express things English simply doesn’t have words for. Scots and Yiddish seem particularly fruitful!
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Oh I love Scots…it sounds so real !!!
Words like ‘fash’ sounds so much better than annoy or inconvenience.
And confidence doesn’t stand a chance against chutzpah now does it ???
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🙂 you are so right! And nothing describes a child playing with water (or mud) like guddling. My mother used to describe Kiwi friends as glaikit (stupid) when she met them – not realizing their slightly glazed expression was because they didn’t understand her Scots accent!
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I like that word guddling. That is funny about your Mum. Accents are so weird…I was listening to some Aussies from WWII footage the other day…OMG…you need a dictionary to understand and I am Australian.
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I know what you mean. One of my partner’s cousins taped their grandmother reminiscing. She was from Southland, and between the accent and the dialect, I was totally lost!
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Good response Jo! I combined the two as well. Love the photo too 🙂
Here’s mine.
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Thanks Tina.
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I will try to pop over and look. On this computer that doesn’t ALWAYS work. Sometimes it just will NOT open pages for me. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
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Great image Jo! I do have the most attractive Pirate crew out there, so I expected no less. Of course, I always love a well placed chapeau. 😉
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I had to be very careful with the placing…and the selecting the photo. Some things slipped a little in to view on some of them.
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In situations like this, I think a smaller hat than expected is the better option.
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I have lots of hats of ALL sizes at the moment. Thank goodness for friends in the theatre. Wait until you see the ‘safari’ hat…
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OK, that sounds interesting. 🙂 Don’t forget, visors, sweatbands and tiaras are considered hats also, if you’re looking for suggestions.
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I shall keep that in mind. I have a crown of sorts…some berets. It will keep me busy for a few days. Think The Daughter has a tiara somewhere in her old room.
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Of course you’re beautiful and what a great shot!
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Awwwwwwww…shucks.
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Thanks Gilly. Thanks goodness I still have the camera gear. It keeps me smiling !
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It most certainly DOES have it’s advantages, Jo. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You’re only as beautiful as you feel. Beauty’s only skin deep. DANG, girl. We are beautiful, aren’t we? 😉
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We sure are !!! When you let go of the insecurities of youth it is amazing.
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This technique is perfect for this challenge and you did a great job incorporating the colors and highlights. This is a portrait that anyone would be happy to have of themselves.
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Thank you Allan. I have been thinking about doing just that with this one myself. So it is all ready to go, when at 90+ the send me on my way, to be the photo everyone has to look at…hehehehe
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Reasonable?
You’re gorgeous!
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With lots of help from photo-editing…hehehehe
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looking good!
while i’ll never be 21 again, i’m still happy with the way i look now. ‘each age has beauty’ – i definitely agree 🙂
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Thank kz. 21…I never wish to be THAT age again. Too full of doubt if I can remember it right.
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Wonderful photo, you really looks great even with Zorro’s hat… “lol”
A good creative idea… 🙂
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Thank you !!! I am a big ZORRO fan so i think the hat steals all the glory.
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Hey, Jo … long time no see, but always remembered … thanks for stopping by my blog. Love, cat.
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I do pop in but sometimes BLOGGER won’t let me comment…it is a bit frustrating. Happens with another blogger friend as well.
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Jo, Good to see you! and the Hat!… You look lovely! quite envious in fact Lol.. and you are far braver than I.. and you are positively ‘Glowing’ Much love to you 🙂 So Good to see you.. I have a mountain of catch ups on WP… Know you are never forgotten even though we are like ships that pass in the night… 🙂 We embark in each others ports eventually 😉 Big Hugs to you xxx
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Thanks Sue…having been in catchup mode for weeks I understand. Not so much brave as nuts really. Actually I think I have gotten to a point where it is ‘what the heck…why not?’
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A stunning picture and a wonderfull you.
I can’t see anything to be ashamed of! you look just great!
What you write here is so true.
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Thank you. It is funny the reaction I have had to this pic. Some LOVE it, others wonder if I have lost my mind showing it to people.
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What a fabulous, positive post Jo! You are an inspiration to the rest of us. And yes, you look sensational 😀
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Awwww thanks Madhu. Everyone has been really positive on here…funny though, 1 or 2 offline friends think it is a bit risque I think and that I am mad posting it online for the world to see.
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I think it is beautiful 🙂
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